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Glimpse of a tribal funeral

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009
Elijah 9second from L) and Kanuka friends, 1992

Elijah (second from L) and Kanuka friends, 1992

Loud wailing greeted the boy as he neared the village – screaming sobs that announced the death of a Kanuka man. Elijah had hiked for hours with his father, who was a missionary to the this tribe in the dense interior of Papua New Guinea, to observe the funeral. They were hoping to see deeper into the minds of the Kanuka* people in order to better communicate the Gospel with them.  

The ceremonial wailing continued long into the night. Part of the weeping was genuine sorrow for the dead; part of it was driven by fear, because the Kanuka believed that the spirit of the dead man was still lingering in the village. They were hoping to to appease the spirit so it would leave.  Elijah wondered what else they believed… many of the rituals performed by the tribal people were motivated by the fear of spirits…but he was only thirteen years old, and fatigue was beginning to overtake him…

He lay down on a stick bed in one of the houses, but it was hard to sleep. The nubby sticks poked into him, smoke from the open fire stung his eyes, and the wailing was loudest here. It was in this hut that the family of the deceased kept watch over his body. Such a long night, the boy thought.

CRASH! Elijah jumped up out of the stick bed as he realized it was morning and he was all alone in the hut with the corpse. CRASH! He saw what was happening as the whooping and screaming began – the people were hurling rocks at the house he was in. They were stoning it to drive the dead man’s spirit out of the village, and anxiety struck him because the hut was none too sturdy. Elijah knew he didn’t want to stay there any longer! He dashed out the door.

The people were just as surprised as he was; they had forgotten about the white boy, whose face was even whiter now than it had been the day before. “Moso-moso (Little Bush Rat),” they asked him, “did you see the dead man’s spirit leave?”

 “No,” Elijah answered. The strangeness of all that had happened left him a little dazed.

That afternoon he and his father hiked back home with their notes and a sober feeling inside, wishing they could communicate better with the Kanuka people. 

*tribal name has been changed to protect the privacy of this people

Eight tiny feet

Tuesday, November 17th, 2009

Six small feet – a pair of wide ones, a pair of narrow ones, and one set of chubby soft feet – peeked out at me from under the covers. Elijah worked late again tonight, helping a friend move in, so the kids and I made it a “special time”. Soft classical music played, three candles burned and three bright sippy cups with peppermint tea were busily slurped as I gave each of the kids a foot rub. (more…)

Rest in Christ

Saturday, May 30th, 2009

A mother reading with her children.

   Finishing school. Back home for two months. On the road with our three children for two months, back home busily getting ready for the baby to arrive the next month. Looking on to the summer, mountains of paperwork, preparation, construction jobs, ministry opportunities… then field preparation as we hope to be leaving before the end of 2009 – does this sound something like your busy life as well? So much to do and seemingly so little time? (more…)

Snow camping and upcoming events

Friday, February 13th, 2009

2607_52978   The Halls are back in chilly Maine doing the kinds of things that winter dwellers do…

   Sledding on the icy hills as winter breeze whips by; snowball “tosses” with the kids, hauling firewood and enjoying hot spiced apple cider with family.

   Elijah and Elisha even camped out in the snow cave for a night! (more…)

Forest Camp

Saturday, November 1st, 2008

Elisha makes toast at our \

   What to do when jungle camp is canceled?

   Substitute another camping experience!

   Traditionally New Tribes Mission students have spent six weeks at a “jungle camp” where they build their own pole frame homes, cook from scratch, and other activities associated with simple living. Since there was no jungle camp for us this year we decided on the next best thing: forest camp! (more…)

“Third Culture Kids”

Saturday, May 10th, 2008

So what is a “Third Culture Kid”?

     It is a child who spends a good deal of time away from the parents’ home culture, and doesn’t really feel “at home” in the home culture (American culture in our case) or the host culture (Papua New Guinean culture, for example).

     I imagine our son Elisha in twelve years or so. He’ll most likely have spent four years of that time here in the USA – getting acquainted with the way we do things, what we say and what we DON’T say, how we greet people…chances are it won’t be anything like what he’ll learn in the country we spend the other eight years in. (more…)

Family or Ministry?

Saturday, March 22nd, 2008

                              Family or Ministry?

     Is this really the question? Does it have to be one or the other?
     Or should we ask “How does the Lord want our family to do ministry?” (more…)

“Too old”?

Saturday, February 23rd, 2008

Winter rainbow in the North

                                 A Birthday Story

     Moira awoke Jerusha the morning of her second birthday and kissed her. “Good morning Jerusha. Today is your birthday! You are two years old now!”

     Jerusha burst into tears. “I’m not too old Mommy! I’m a little girl! Can I be three old?” (more…)

Life passes quickly

Friday, January 18th, 2008

Moira`s grandfather with Elisha (photo taken March 2006)

     Moira’s grandfather died this past week somewhat unexpectedly. We think he was a believer, but how short life is! The Scripture compares our human life span to vapor and grass that withers, and what an accurate mind picture that is in the scope of eternity… (more…)

Child Protection and Parenting

Saturday, December 8th, 2007

     The teacher of the “Effective Parenting” module was describing why New Tribes Mission sent a family home because of their unruly children. When the father said, “But I have this great ministry going! Why send me home now?” the reply was,

     “Read 1 Timothy 3; you’re disqualified from a ministry like this when your house is not ruled well.” (more…)