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A “Tex message update” from the Mankinses

Friday, July 31st, 2009

We are now in hot Dallas, Texas. We flew here last week to fit in a good 2-week visit with family once we had some dates set for medical procedures in FL.

Early last week, we saw a specialist in Gainesville, FL, who did some more testing on Chad, and as a result we were able to schedule the following dates with him:

We fly back to Orlando on Tuesday (August 4th). Then the next day (5th), we go up to Gainesville for a procedure called a nerve block, involving an injection of steroids into a nerve which may be stuck in a cycle of firing and may be responsible for causing all the pain. If this works, it will bring Chad some temporary relief (anywhere from several hours to several days of relief), and will then tell our doctor that we are on the right track to proceed with a surgery on Aug. 24th. This surgery uses cutting-edge robotic technology, and would microdissect and cauterize a specific nerve or nerves. If all goes well with this surgery and it resolves the pain problem, Chad would need several weeks of recovery. And then in about a month, the doctor could see him again and clear us for return to PNG. This would put our return at around the end of September.

So we would like to both thank you deeply for praying and continue to ask for your prayers in these times.

Also be in prayer for our partners these days. The Williamson family are still ministering in the village alone, and will be looking forward to the return of the Knapps the first week of August. As if that last week before leaving the USA wasn’t hectic enough for us missionaries, the Knapps have had a little extra stress recently, with their youngest son Malachi Knapp (5 yrs old) visiting the ER with a kidney stone! So we know that Malachi and the whole Knapp family could use some extra prayer from us, too.

Still In God’s Loving Hands,

Chad, Janeene, Elijah & Zekey

Good news and…

Monday, July 13th, 2009

My Sweet Boys :)We have some good news and some more for you to pray with us about.

First, the good news…the pathology report came back, and although Chad’s tumor was malignant, it was the non-invasive low grade variety, which means that since the doctor got it all, we won’t need anything like chemo, but only periodic checkups. Praise God with us for that!!!

He said that normally he would have Chad checked again in 3 months, but since we are, Lord willing, planning on being back in PNG before that time, then he would recommend that we get Chad checked in 6 months. So at that time we will look into the possibility of a trip to Australia or another nearby country with good medical facilities to have that done and then a quicker return to the ministry in PNG.

Which brings us to our prayer item: For us to return soon to PNG, we still need to get to the bottom of what’s causing Chad’s pain. We have seen a neurological surgeon who looked at the results of the spinal MRI, and though a synovial cyst was found, it does not appear to be linked to the area of pain. But he decided to try putting Chad on some medication to see if there is enough improvement to warrant more treatment on his part. It’s only been a few days now, and thus far results are fairly inconclusive. We will continue to consult with doctors and weigh further options. So far this has been a real mystery, but God knows all, and we can rest in that—and in His great love for us. Thanks for your prayers—they are much appreciated these days!

Please pray for:

~Wisdom for our doctors here, as they search for answers and a course of action to treat Chad’s pain.

~Grace for Chad as he deals with the pain on a daily basis. Many of you live with pain and know how chronic pain can wear a person down over time. Please pray for the grace and the peace that passes all understanding.

~Contentment, as we have had to adjust to this abrupt interruption of the work we’ve been doing in PNG. We know that this is what God has for us now, but it is still a struggle for us at times, especially knowing that we’ve had to leave our partners the Williamsons alone in the village and have left the young church in the middle of teaching through the great book of Romans. But we do know that God will work all this out for His glory and our growth—ours, our co-workers, and that of the Tobo believers as well.

We just need to go back to that again and again and choose to rest in God.

~Guidance in the future as we will need to find a good place for followup on Chad across the big water six months from now. Pray for all the finances, paperwork, and other travel logistics, as well as a good doctor and medical facilities.

Chad & Janeene
Elijah & Zekey

thankful

Thursday, July 2nd, 2009

Thanks for praying! Chad’s surgery today was successful and the entire tumor was removed from his bladder. We’ll see what next week brings with the pathology report. Also we have an appointment with a neuro-surgeon next week for a problem with Chad’s back which might be the source of the past 4 months of pain. We’ll let you know more when we know more.

We are so thankful for your prayers, and for each of you!!

Chad & Janeene
Elijah & Zekey

PS- Please also keep our partners, the Williamsons (alone in Toboland), the Knapps (here in the US wrapping up their furlough time), and our Tobo brothers and sisters in Christ.

Update on Chad’s health

Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009

After conducting some more tests, the doctor found a small tumor in Chad’s bladder which he said looked like the beginnings of a malignant tumor. He wants to surgically remove the tumor next Wednesday, July 1st, then we will wait for the pathology report.

Interestingly enough, he also said that he could see no apparent link between this tumor and Chad’s pain, and so we are going to pursue a few more tests including an MRI on Thursday.

So as you can see, we are still looking for more answers. But at this point, if nothing else, we can see God’s gracious hand at work in showing us this tumor so quickly. He has also been our Rock during these times of uncertainty and suffering. Many of you have sent emails expressing your love and prayer support of us. Thank you. We would also ask you to continue lifting us up as a family before our Father.

In His Hands,

Chad, Janeene, Elijah & Zekey

more doctor visits

Friday, June 19th, 2009

Thank you all for praying for Chad this last week and a half. Tomorrow, he is heading back to the doctor for more testing and procedures, etc, but so far we still don’t know the cause of all his pain. Last week the doctor started him on 3 more medications and wants to see if they’re helping or not, but in our opinion, they haven’t helped yet.

So please continue to pray that the doctor will have wisdom and that Chad could start healing soon.

We appreciate you all standing with us in prayer!

Janeene
for the family

safe arrival

Sunday, June 7th, 2009

Thank you for praying for our travels. We made it to Orlando after 36 hours of planes and delays and layovers. Chad made it fine even with continuous pain and lack of sleep. Our 2 airplane-loving boys did great on the flights and Elijah even got to see a pilot and flip a switch in the cockpit (“Fasten Seat Belt” sign)!

We still will be adjusting to jet lag the next few days, but according to Elijah at 2am in the morning… “Mom, this is fun. We all get to eat as a family in the middle of the night!”

We have a doctor’s appointment on Monday and hopefully he’ll be able to determine what is causing all of Chad’s pain and get some solutions for him soon.

We appreciate your prayers!!

Chad & Janeene
Elijah (4) & Zekey (18mos)

cinnamon rolls and tadpoles

Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

 
As 2009 approaches, we wanted to share an updated family photo, as well as look back and share some recent amusing things which give you an idea of the emerging personalities behind the faces of our boys.

Elijah is a big tall 4-year-old now, with a growing collection of caterpillars, frogs, future frogs (17 tadpoles to be exact), beetles, and other assorted local critters. He is also a man of many many words, many of them unexpectedly hilarious. When Elijah turned 4 on the 18th, he proudly told his little brother, “Zekey, I’m a 4 year old guy!”

One day before Christmas, Elijah and Janeene were playing with some cars. Janeene said, “I can do a donut,” and then demonstrated with her car the 360 degree “donut” spinout. Elijah, never one to be outdone, loudly exclaimed, “I can do a cinnamon roll!”

Zekey is still our “quiet one”, a little man of few words and many grunts. We enjoy a number of his words, though, including “guck” (duck), “gobgobgob” (turkey gobble), and “mah-men” (“Amen,” which he now likes to interject during our bedtime prayer times). He also loves to walk holding one or both hands in ours.

A favorite game of his is to crawl as fast as he can towards one of us, then if we crawl towards him on a “collision course,” he laughs and squeals and using his hands he scoots himself backwards along the floor just as fast as he came (we have smooth plywood flooring which slides really well).

We hope that 2009 finds you all happy and healthy and most importantly, resting in the big hands of our Lord. We thank you for your part in keeping our family out here among the Tobo people!

Love, Chad, Janeene, Elijah, and Zekey

A Year of Blessings

Friday, November 21st, 2008

The birthday boy Zekey!

 Our little Zekey is now a one-year-old! We celebrated his first birthday by decorating the room with dinosaurs. Zekey wasn’t too sure what to think of his little baby triceratops cake, but once he got his fingers dirty and starting tasting that icing and chocolate, that was all she wrote!

It’s hard to believe that time has flown by so quickly—it seems like just yesterday we were bringing him home as a 2-day-old from the hospital in Orlando, and now here we are with a cute little guy with an infectious crinkly-faced grin sporting a new grand total of 8 sparkling teeth, great dance moves and a real gift of musical rhythm, and a hollow leg to boot (referring to his endless appetite, that is).

Zekey nowadays loves to pull himself up to stand and can walk along furniture and legs now, and though he’s still not as verbal as our Elijah (who is a little chatterbox), he communicates lots with grunts, occasional words, and several hand signals he’s picked up from us like “please,” “thank you”, “all done”, and “more (food)” (which we think is his favorite sign).

We thank God for giving us Zekey to love and raise along with his older brother. God has blessed us this past year, and one of the greatest pieces of evidence of this is sitting in our living room flinging toy racecars across the floor at high speeds punctuated by loud squeals of delight, joining in the raucous fun along with exhibit #2 of God’s (big brother Elijah).

Thanks to you as well. Your love, prayers and support all add to the heap of blessings at the hand of our God during this past year.

Love,

Chad, Janeene, Elijah, and Zekey the yearling

in town

Friday, October 10th, 2008

Our family out in town

Hi from beautiful (and hot) town!

Elijah’s first question once we arrived was, “Are we going to be staying at the ant house?” Actually, we did end up moving to the other half of the duplex where those pesky ants were during our last visit here. We are happy to report that we’ve seen relatively few of them this time around and so our stay has been less stressful and more “ant-i-climatic” than before!

These few weeks we are between our annual conference and a translation workshop, and so in the meantime we are taking a break and enjoying some good times together as a family. Janeene and Zekey have both been sick and feeling kind of miserable with some sort of cold-type virus, so that hasn’t been too much fun, but otherwise we are doing well and taking the opportunity to get in some fun and fellowship with friends here that we don’t usually see more than twice a year.

Chad has done some shopping in town, swimming and jumping on the trampoline with Elijah (though swimming on the trampoline has been challenging), and trying to play nursemaid and chief cook (poor family!) and bottle washer. But before you feel too sorry for him, he’s planning to go scuba diving among the gorgeous coral reefs offshore this weekend. It’s rough out there, but someone has do it!

Janeene has been resting and trying to kick her illness and has still managed to get in some time internet shopping as she’s been up to it, and some of her friends have had some visits with her as well. It looks like she’s starting to feel a tad better now, but still unable to join Chad on the dive.

Elijah has been eating up every moment out here, tagging along with the older kids, eating ice cream, grabbing frogs and chasing lizards, swimming and running around, riding his little bike with training wheels and yes, would just as soon set up a camp on top of the trampoline to stay there 24-7 if he had his way!! He is just bubbling over with excitement and energy and is never at a loss for words to describe how much fun he is having and wants to keep having.

Zekey has been crawling everywhere for some time now (and that at a very fast pace), but just this last week decided to start pulling himself up to stand propped up by low-lying furniture. This is often punctuated by loud peals of hearty laughter and funny faces, so I guess this makes him a “standup comedian” now. Naptime and bedtime is now preceded by an endless period of popping up and peeking over his crib walls to jabber at his brother or whoever else will lend him an ear. His vocabulary consists of such words as “da-da”, “gecko”, “koko” (the Tobo word for baby), and “ha” (which is supposed to be “hi”). Alas, repeated attempts to coax him into saying the most important word “ma-ma” have continued to fail. Much to Janeene’s chagrin, the little stinker will just smile and say “va-va”, “tha-tha”, and virtually every other consonant found in human language except “m”!

So what’s next for us? On Monday, we meet up with 2 of Chad’s translation helpers, Tingon and Kips. The 6 of us will then fly up to Goroka. Janeene and the boys will stay at our mission center with some friends, while Chad and the guys go attend a two-week epistle translation workshop. Please pray for us during this workshop, especially for Janeene and the boys who will be apart from Chad.

After that workshop, we will get Romans 1-3 checked by a consultant, then all fly back to the village to resume our ministry there of discipleship and translation. It has been a real joy to spend time with our Tobo brothers and sisters, and we look forward to getting back to the village again.

Thanks for your love and prayers and your sacrificial gifts! We could not be here were it not for you, so thanks for your part in God’s great work here!

Chad, Janeene, Elijah, and Zekey

Growing

Thursday, July 31st, 2008

Time sure flies when you’re having fun, doesn’t it? It’s hard to believe that this is our first update to you since moving back to our village home. One word to sum up the last month would be—growing.

Growing as a body—yes, the Lord is growing his church here. Not so much numerically at this point, but the growth is definitely noticeable among several of the believers here. You know how children grow and you can’t see any measurable progress as you are with them on a daily basis, but once you’re absent from that favorite little niece or nephew (or grandchild for some of you)…..whoo doggies, can you ever see how much they’ve shot up in height, girth, or both. Their faces fill out or thin out, they just look that much older since you last saw them!

Well, after about 8 months away from the young church here, we have seen some marked growth in lives. The first believers’ meeting we went to after we arrived was led entirely by the guys who are teaching back through the Phase One lessons as a review. Not only are these guys doing a great job team teaching, with each of the 3 men taking a portion of the lesson, but others in the group are sharing from the Word, reading quite a bit faster than before, leading worship, and praying, all with no prompting from us missionaries. In fact, the only involvement I have had so far (praying, sharing) has come after THEY have asked ME! What a joy to see them using and exercising those gifts God has given them even at this early stage!

Growing as individuals—one telling mark of this is that in the few short weeks since returning, we have seen each of the teachers come to us with questions and looking for some advice and spiritual encouragement. They are wanting to be faithful to the Word and to set the right example for the others, and we are cheering them on in this as well as encouraging them from the Word and praying together with them. Wow- what a privilege to see their maturity in recognizing the need to be discipled as well as disciplers.

What a good reminder for all of us of the need to be interdependent and connected with each other as the body of Christ. None of us is too busy or too isolated from others to justify separation from the rest of the body or to tell others that “we can’t go this alone or in our own strength” while not ourselves practicing what we preach. So as we’ve told each of these guys during our one-on-one times and also our weekly men’s meetings, “God is standing on the road of our meeting together and helping you and us to strengthen each others’ insides and he is really strengthening them in all of us!” A looser translation of this would be, “God is using our meeting together so that we encourage each other, and through this he is encouraging all of us spiritually!” Amen!

Growing in grace—in the past, we missionaries have been protective of the gospel of grace in our midst and have been quick to correct those who would try to add erroneous thinking (i.e, “We also need to do this, and then we will get eternal life”) that would render the grace of God through Christ irrelevant. Since coming back, we have observed especially the teachers, but also some others in the group have now been quick to correct those errant remarks and remind everyone that we need to stand on the road of what Christ has done for us already and not in our own thinking or strength or any good behavior of our own.

How refreshing to be poised and ready to speak up in a meeting and then find that other brothers and sisters “take the words right out of my mouth” and actually say it better than I could! In Tobo culture, saving face and avoiding direct conflict, ‘letting things slide’ at the expense of truth is normally paramount, but what we are seeing in our fellowship is a “Spirit thing” and not a cultural thing (nor is it a “foreign thing” or a “white missionary thing”). Praise God!

Growing as missionaries—That is, now I am talking about US! God has used this month, along with all its adjustments to remind us afresh of our own inadequacies and weakness, and that we absolutely need HIM to be able to function in our daily lives. In returning here and getting “back in the saddle”, we have faced a more challenging time than ever before. We’re sure that more than a little of this has to do with the adjustment of coming back as a family of 4 rather than 3! We need God’s wisdom and his grace in dealing with things as they come up, as well as strength and stamina. Along with the encouraging process of growth, we do feel the s-t-r-e-t-c-h-i-n-g which we know leads to growth. Although uncomfortable at times, this stretching is good for us, as we need not focus on ourselves and our progress, but instead on God and His process which He uses to grow us.

This is where you come in—we need your prayers for us as we grow and stretch. Pray that as a couple, we would communicate well together. This is more of a challenge out here than you would think. Pray that us as a family, that we will be faithful as parents to invest in the boys lives spiritually and spend good quality time with them (again, you would be surprised at the challenge this can be, even on the mission field). Pray for us as a team as we work together, make decisions together, and most importantly encourage each other and sharpen each other spiritually.

Can you see any growth here?

That we may all keep growing,

Chad, Janeene, Elijah & Zeke