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Oklahoma Livin’

Thursday, November 12th, 2009
Us with Lucille

Us with Lucille

We’re in the middle of transition number…umm, I’ve lost track.

Almost 8½ years ago, Mindy and I made the move up to Jackson, MI to attend the New Tribes Bible Institute and begin the process of preparing to serve as tribal church planters.  It has been a long road full of stress and growth and disappointments and accomplishments.  It seems like every time we got through a twist, there, up ahead, was a turn.

This last bit of preparation was a practical study of linguistics with the Cherokee language in Oklahoma.  We had a very sweet Cherokee lady named Lucille Wilson as our language helper.  We are very thankful for the time that she gave us for those seven weeks.  We especially appreciated her patience as we fumbled along, trying to speak Cherokee while digging for patterns in the sounds and grammar of her language.

Of Course the kids also provided some excitement to the adventure.  They were involved in killing a tarantula.  Daniella had a tick attached to her chest.  Hannah had a case of poison oak.  Macayla hit her head on the cement slab, adding an extra hole.  Elijah “lost” his first two teeth—one was extracted with a seat belt, the other by another kid’s head.  (He just “lost” his third one with the help of Hannah’s thumb!)  Click here to see some pictures of our time in Oklahoma.

And now, with our linguistics Cherokee Write-up complete, our training is complete as well.  We’re now looking ahead at new curves in the road:  packing, planning, paper work, pronouncing our plans, and finally making our pursuit of Paraguay a reality in March.

This seems like a lot of work and a lot of headaches; maybe even with more stress and disappointments.  But it’s worth it; because we’ll see more growth and accomplishment as well.  Of course, it was God that brought us through the training, and it’s Him that will bring us to Paraguay, and it’s Him that will do the accomplishing after we’re there.  With the final destination in mind, we’re trusting God for what’s around the next turn in the road.

Pursuing Paraguay

Saturday, September 26th, 2009

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One thing we always hear, and are fully aware of by now, is that missionaries must be flexible.  It’s not because God changes His mind or spontaneously decides to do something different with us.  But it is because God knows His plans for us and we do not.  God’s plan was not for David to build the temple, it was for Solomon to build it.  And His plan was not for Paul to preach in Asia, but in Macedonia.  As we walk with Him and trust Him, His plan becomes more clear.

Last week we received some news that creates a change in our plans, but it doesn’t change God’s plans.  The Paraguayan field leadership team met for their regular quarterly business meeting and, among other things, they discussed the benefits of us going to Mexico before Paraguay.  The result of that meeting is that we no longer have to go to Mexico before we can go to Paraguay!  The field of Paraguay isn’t completely set up for this change yet, so it may be March before we’re able to go down there, but it will still be months sooner than was originally planned.  We were never against going to Mexico first, and we have been willing to go along with the leadership’s decisions, but there are so many benefits to this change that we are excited about.  Praise God with us for His orchestration of this.  Now we just have to readjust our thinking when it comes to packing over these next few months.  Please pray for us as we make the necessary adjustments to go to Paraguay early next year.

The Fourth of July: A Declaration of Identification

Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

Hannah and Elijah`s Declaration of Identification

The Fourth of July is a celebration and a time to remember the sacrifices made to bring our country freedom. As believers, we have our own periodic celebration. Communion is the time that we set aside to remember the Great Sacrifice that our Savior made on the cross to bring us freedom from our sin. These two celebrations are somewhat similar. Each is a remembrance of a sacrifice made.

The Fourth of July is also a recollection of the signing of the Declaration of Independence. The Declaration of Independence was a statement made by thirteen colonies declaring their intentions to break off from the rule of England. As believers, we make our own declaration. Baptism is a statement made by believers. But while the Declaration of Independence was declaring intentions, the believer’s baptism is declaring what has already taken place. Baptism is the declaration of a believer to other believers and to unbelievers of his identification with Christ in his death, burial, and resurrection. It is a one-time occurrence in which a believer declares to all that will listen, “Jesus Christ died for my sins, I believe that, and I am now part of His family.”

The Fourth of July for us this year was not only a day for remembering our country’s sacrifices and declaration; it was a day for two fairly new believers to make their own declaration of their belief in Jesus’ sacrifice and their identification with Him. In Matthew 28, Jesus instructs us to make disciples of all nations and to baptize them. We are looking forward to doing that in a far away nation, but it was a tremendous privilege to baptize Hannah and Elijah last Saturday! If you’re on Facebook, you can go there to see a couple videos. You can also go to our Photos page here to see some pictures.

Video – Missionary Training Center

Monday, April 13th, 2009

Graduation from the MTC

Below is a little video about our time in Missouri.  It works best if you push ‘play’ then ‘pause’ and let it buffer until the gray line is half way across, then push ‘play’ to watch it.  Click the four-arrow icon at the bottom to watch the video full screen.

Thanks for watching!

Missionary Training Center from Bryson White on Vimeo.

March 2009 NTM@Work

Sunday, March 22nd, 2009

The latest edition of the NTM@Work had a couple articles that are near to the path we’ve been on and will be following.

For the past year and a half we’ve been in training at the Missionary Training Center in Missouri.  As we come up on the completion of this endeavor, take a look with us at where we’ve been and the coming changes to this campus that is dedicated to preparing missionaries to take the Gospel overseasGet Ready to Go.

For the next few years, our kids will experience various manners of education as they participate in public school here, MK school on the field, and home schooling in between.  Eventually though, several years down the road, they may enjoy the benefits of an NTM MK school in Paraguay.  Take a glance at this school that will be part of our future in ParaguayParaguay School Renovation

That He Might Increase

Monday, December 22nd, 2008

Bachelors of Intercultural Ministries

On the evening of Friday, December 19, 2008 we graduated from the church planting course at the Missionary Training Center in Roach, MO. We received our degrees at that time and we will become official members on January 1, 2009.

Our neighbor and friend, Wayne Chen, was one of our class speakers. He encouraged us to remember the words of John the Baptist as we go to our various fields of service. In John 3:28, 29 John said, “I am not the Christ…He must increase, but I must decrease.” These words really are applicable no matter what circumstance we are in. These words will help us to maintain the proper perspective when our ministry is flourishing, when we appear to be failing, when we are in the midst of a conflict with our coworkers, and when we are having a hard time liking the tribal people that we are there to serve.  Our ultimate goal is to see Christ increased in people’s lives.

Having finished the church planting course, we are ready to begin the linguistics course in January. Out of a class of about 80 students, 20 are staying for this advanced course in language analysis, and Mindy and I are two of Paraguay, here we come!them. The decision for us to do this class was based on our aptitude, interest, and future ministry.

Upon completing the linguistics training, we hope to leave for Spanish study in January of 2010. Then we will head to the tribes of Paraguay, reminding ourselves that we are not the Christ and we must decrease, that He might increase.

We’ve Chosen a Field!

Monday, November 17th, 2008

Paraguay

After much research and prayer we have indeed chosen Paraguay as our field of service. We are extremely excited about knowing where it is that we’re headed and we’re looking forward to seeing what God is going to do to get us there.

We have a few reasons for choosing this field. Paraguay was first a consideration because Spanish-speaking countries occupied the top of our list. We also looked at translation and linguistic needs, both of which Paraguay does have. The field of Paraguay is one of NTM’s oldest, having been opened more than sixty years ago. In recent years they have not been getting many new missionaries. However, the missionaries that are there are At the heart of South America, Paraguay is roughly the size of California optimistically expecting to finish several works and are looking ahead to nearing the closing out of the field. Since there are still several works yet to open, this of course is still many years down the road.

Their excitement has been contagious, and we are excited about being a part of seeing the work of New Tribes Mission come to an end in this country. Having contacted the field and being invited to join their team, we were very excited to learn that two other families and two single ladies from our class here are also headed to Paraguay. Besides us from our class, there are several others from classes before and after us that are headed there or considering it. Our goals for the next couple yearsFor some reason, it seems that God has chosen this particular time to direct a handful of His servants to Paraguay. To the left is our prospective timetable for the next couple legs of our journey toward a tribal ministry.

Click here to find out more about the work of NTM in Paraguay.

Close to Family

Sunday, November 16th, 2008

Our Family Almost One Year Ago

When we first applied to enter the training here in Missouri, my parents were home on furlough from Venezuela.  Although they knew that they would probably not be returning to that field to serve, they didn’t know where they would end up.  we were pretty excited when we found out that they would be coming to serve here at the MTC.  Of course, the kids are excited to have Nana and Pop close by.

But now, at least for a while, we are going to have the privilege of an added blessing.  My mom’s dad has sold his house and moved into my parent’s house right here.  And Cora and Jeremy with their two kids (one brand new one!) are moving here also, at least for a few months.  So, while we have a few holiday seasons ahead of us that will be spent away from family, we have the blessing of spending this one with many of them!

Greetings from Christmas Past

Tuesday, January 15th, 2008

The family

We had a really good Christmas break as we were able to spend the entire break at my parents’ house. It began on December 21, Elijah’s birthday, so we had a party for him that night. He got to have some special guests for his party as some friends, the Davises, were able to stop by for the night on their way from Mexico to Michigan. Hannah was so excited about Santa coming that she had to clear off the fire place so that he had a way to get in. She also left cookies and milk on the table. She was surprised in the morning to wake up to an empty plate and glass and a note left by Santa (actually written by Pop). My sister, Cora, and her family came late on Christmas Eve, so when the kids got up they got to wake up to them being here.

Cora and Jeremy are trying to adopt two little boys, which has turned out to be a really difficult and lengthy process. The adoption has actually been completely finished for the older boy, so he is now officially Landon James Toth. Please continue to pray for them and Caleb as this is a difficult time for them. It was good to be able to spend time with these two boys, not knowing if we will be able to do the same next Christmas. They were able to be there for about 4 days.

Bryson beginning the butchering processThe next thing we did over break was quite an experience. One I did not really appreciate at the time, but one that takes skills that could end up being very useful on the mission field. We purchased half a cow to split four ways with some other students here. The other families did the cleaning before break since they were going to be gone, but the butchering was left for us to do over break. My parents were also a big help with this; my dad especially as he was in the MTC kitchen helping me for the entire 18 hours that I was in there.

The rest of the break was a fairly restful time. We spent New Years Eve and Day just hanging around at my parents’ house and watching the Rose Parade. For the last several years, we have very slowly been working on putting all of our Bible School notes in electronic format so that we can throw away all of the paper notes (starting at two boxes worth of paper). Mindy did a great job during the last week of break finishing up a lot of that; the end of that endeavor is really in sight within the next couple months. We added a Christmas Break 2007 category on our picture page if you’re interested. Although we had a really good break, we are now happy about getting back into classes. We are really looking forward to seeing what God has for us this coming semester.

As Far as He’ll Take Us

Wednesday, August 29th, 2007

So the journey began

Turn. Click. Turn. Click. Wait. Turn. Vroom. Rumble, rumble, rumble. It started again. This “procedure” to start our van began in Oregon and grew more frequent as we traveled through California and across the country. It even came with us down to Chihuahua, Mexico. At the mall in Chihuahua, in the midst of a downpour, I ran out to retrieve the van. The “procedure” this time took two full minutes. I knew that something was wrong with the van, but I did not know what. I worried.

Leaving Chihuahua a couple days later, the van did fine. We stopped in El Paso to pick up our trailer before continuing on to Albuquerque and there was no hint of a problem. We camped in Albuquerque and the next morning…turn. Click. Turn. Click. Turn. Click. Wait. Two minutes (and a prayer) later, turn. Vroom. Grumble, grumble, grumble. We were on our way again. I was apprehensive.

We pulled up right in front of my sister’s driveway in Oklahoma and stopped. After unloading the suitcases from the van, I went back to move it out of the way of the driveway. Turn. Click. Turn. Click. Turn. Click. I was frustrated. Turn. Snap. Uh, oh. Turn. Turn. Turn. It didn’t start. It didn’t do anything. I thought, I guess we’ll be driving a different vehicle into Missouri. I doubted.

Honestly, during the next week, I prayed the most that I had prayed in a long time. My sister’s neighbor was a mechanic. He used to tear down and repair Ford steering columns for side money. Our van is a Ford. He knew exactly what the problem was. We had the steering column completely out of the van and the steering wheel off. After buying the new part, the neighbor put the column back together and did not charge me. He also left the work of reinstalling the column and wheel into the van to me. For that, I am still concerned, but I’m learning. But after turning the last screw, I put in the key. Turn. Vroom.

I don’t know where we’ll end up. I don’t know how we’ll get there. I don’t know how far we’ll get with what we have. One thing I do know is that I can look forward to more worry, apprehension, frustration, doubt, and concern. Another thing I know is that I drove our same ol’ van into Missouri. Despite my doubts and everything else my flesh can muster up, God is faithful to take care of us. And we will go as far as He’ll take us.